Sunday, April 13, 2014

Our Trip to Memphis - Part II

Day 3 continued...
After our adventures at Brooks Museum, we drove around the corner to Overton Park. The Shelby Farms park was impressive, but the park at Overton is AMAZING! I even had to get out and play. The kids could have stayed here the rest of their vacation. In fact, we did go back the next day because it was so much fun!



Day 4: TROLLEY RIDE

On our final day we went into town and took a trolley ride around the downtown area. I LOVE the urban downtown scene... the shops, the architecture, the amazing interlacing roads! In my design studies at BYU we looked at a lot of different architecture and art that you just don't find in Utah. So one of my favorite things in our travels has been getting a taste of those!


  

Our trip to Memphis was SO much fun! We loved spending time with Chris & Jessie and kids and seeing so many things that Memphis had to offer. It's crazy where all of our travels have taken us :) Hopefully St. Louis will be our next vacation spot!

Friday, April 11, 2014

Our Trip to Memphis - Part I

 For Spring Break we drove Ben up to his new job in MEMPHIS, TN! Just to show what a SMALL WORLD it is... the apartment his work had for him was in the SAME building as our good friends Chris & Jessie. We've know them since flight school and both of us have moved a few times since then, and are working for different companies, and still we ended up RIGHT by them! So luckily, their Spring Break and work schedules aligned so they were able to drive us around the town for the week.

Day 1: SHELBY FARMS
This was an awesome park with some HUGE play structures that we'd never seen before. They had a little bit of everything. The park even has a herd of Bison... random!


Day 2: DIXON GARDENS & GALLERY
We were a little early for the flowers to all be in bloom, but it was still BEAUTIFUL. Like a very small Thanksgiving Point, but we got a taste of the greenery as well as a small display of ART!


Day 3: BROOKS MUSEUM
You can imagine the looks on the Security Guards faces as they saw 3 adults and 11 CHILDREN come walking in their MUSEUM! I love ART and ARCHITECTURE, so I drag my kids along for the ride, hoping that they might get a love of it too. They didn't get too bored, and it helped out that they had a hands-on section along with their Salvador Dali display featuring Alice in Wonderland.


It totally cracked me up, we were trying to get a picture with 10 of the kids and Emily was the ONLY one who wasn't looking at the camera. So when I told her to turn around and look at the camera she did that (note the middle picture in the collage)... LOL... and she would NOT turn around... oh to be 2!

Stay tuned for our next installment of Spring Break in Memphis... I'm sure the suspense will kill you :)


Stop and Go

The last 7 months I've just wanted to hide my head in the sand. We came to Alabama thinking the future was nothing but BRIGHT! Then we got a rude awakening... 2 months into his BRUTAL training, Ben got laid off... thank you government cuts :(

It's been really hard to come to terms with things. It's really SHAKEN our faith. We felt SO good about this job. We left our first home, the new tree house we'd JUST finished and WONDERFUL friends. We have MOVED around a LOT. We've enjoyed our experiences but we've really wanted to SETTLE down for the sake of the kids. We really thought Alabama would be our new HOME.

The last thing in the world I wanted to do was shout it out to the WORLD what was going on. At times it's been so heart breaking, but at the same time, we have been so blessed and lifted up through this whole experience. I know we were helped because of our faith in tithing. Kind people from his work pitched in money to help us out. One of Ben's old students flew out here to share some of his generosity. Anonymous gift cards arrived in the mail. Our children's teachers were keenly aware of our needs. It brings tears to my eyes just recalling all the big and little miracles that have helped us survive.

Six months to the DAY of when Ben was laid off, he got a job offer. We still don't know what is going to happen. We don't know what our future will hold. But for now, I am grateful that PEOPLE are GOOD and I CHOOSE to BELIEVE that things will work out for the BEST.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Goodbye Dallas Hello Alabama

Our final family picture in our tree house which we finished in May... half way through we knew we might move but decided to finish it so the kids would at least get to play with it for a while, hopefully someone else gets to love it now! Another small miracle... this was as we were packed up ready to drive off and I prayed that we'd have someone show up to take the picture and up drove my friend!
 This last month we took the leap... in a matter of very short weeks (that felt like days) we changed EVERYTHING. Although to most of our friends and neighbors this came as a total surprise, to us this had been in the making for the past 4 years! To tell you our life story, minus a few details, Ben NEVER like the idea of debt, even for student loans, until he felt guided to become a Heli pilot, which all my other Heli pilot friends (at least those without a super rich daddy ;) know what kind of debt I'm talking about. Despite the debt, he loves what he's doing, and as the wife I can attest that he is happier doing this than anything else, especially when he can teach. Training was step 1, step 2 was getting a job, which we were very blessed to get right away, but the search for a place that he can do what he loves and get paid enough to pay back loans, and still allow a decent family life has been tricky. Along comes Fort Rucker... Home of Army Aviation. Almost 4 years ago exactly we heard about this job... good pay, BENEFITS, great schedule, oh ya, did I say BENEFITS :) So he applied, and was short on hours, so no go. Later, talked to some people, said they would only hire those with military experience, again, no go. That's when we moved to Dallas where Ben was replacing their Assistant Chief who got a job at Ft. Rucker... say what? No military experience, how'd he do that. BUT, we'd bought a house and moved already, so no go. After almost two years in Dallas and working looong hours, no benefits, too much stress, time came to look for another job. We didn't know what to do, but in March we knew one thing, Ben needed to look for a new job. Our options were Ft. Rucker or the Gulf  (aka flying to and from the oil rigs and being gone from home half of the year... yuck). So we talked to the kids and decided to apply for Ft. Rucker. We did NOT want to move again... but especially I prayed that I didn't have to move the kids mid-year again. And we heard NOTHING. Then we heard Ft. Rucker would probably not be hiring for a long time, budget cuts, and realized our only option left was the Gulf. So new plan, finish his UVU degree, then get ATP, then apply at the Gulf. This is when the miracles started to happen. The first day of the kids summer vacation Ben was getting ready for work in the morning and was talking about Fort Rucker. I don't remember what he said or why he was talking about it, just that he was. Then that afternoon he gets an email from Fort Rucker HR asking for him to send more information come to find out Ben was not in the hiring system, they were hiring, and the man "stumbled upon" Ben's email with resume while he was looking for something else. At that moment we knew we were moving. We felt such peace with every decision from then on. We didn't go by the book, but by our guts, really by the Spirit. He gave his notice before he interviewed, a lot scary, but we felt right about it. We booked the moving truck before the job offer, and our house was on the truck and shipped out before everything was official, but we knew what we needed to do and we did it. IT WAS HARD WORK! We literally packed our house in a week and squeezed it into an ABF trailer but we had a LOT of help for which we were SO grateful. My phone ring tone used to be the song "Sweet Home Alabama" and now it really is our Sweet Home! Ben's nearly done with his training, which everyone warned as being really difficult... big understatement. He says it's been the hardest thing he's ever done. But we hope it will be worth it and that this place will be a place we can call home. We've been here 4 weeks and we're just about all moved in. I've given up the idea of ever settling somewhere forever, but I'm ok going where we are called, because I know we'll get the help we need. And for now I'm glad we've been called here.  


So Ben is almost a Primary IP (Instructor Pilot) at Ft. Rucker... he gets to wear all the army gear... looks a little hot, but at least the Heli he flies has AC ;)
The front of our house... we live on the outskirts of a small military town.

As you walk in the front door... this seemed like a ridiculously long and wide hallway, but the kids have found it a great place to rollerblade. The first door on the right goes to the boys teeny bedroom and the next door on the right is a bathroom.
The first room on the left as you walk through the front door... it's our library/study/piano/game room.
First room on the right as you come in the front door. Supposed to be a formal dining room, but since our table doesn't fit in the breakfast nook of the kitchen so this is where we eat dinner.
Office nook between the kitchen and the dining room.

This is the wall opposite that office nook above, and I have to admit that one of the reasons I love having so many kids is to see all their cute things lined up in a row!




This is what you come to at the end of that long hallway, taken from the kitchen angle. The master bedroom is through that little doorway at the back and there are two opening on the sides of the fireplace that go into the bonus room.

This is obviously the kitchen, and I'd love to tell you those food storage boxes acting as bar stools are only temporary but that'd be a big fat lie... lol... I thought about doing a whole blog on all the furniture we've made from our food storage but it's just tacky.

This is the bonus room that shares a fire place with the great room. the kids LIVE in this room all day playing legos.

This is taken from another angle... there's a wet bar on the right which will hold all my craft stuff, but for now it's holdng all our camping gear since we have no garage, but more on that later. I get a sewing corner by the hiding window.

This is the view out our backdoor... I LOVE it! The yard is actually very large, then at there's a wire fence that starts a field that houses about 100 cows. So far no stink ;)

Down the other hallway are two bedrooms, with a jack and jill bath, a laundry room and then this little beauty of a man cave.


Yes, it's a movie theater, which you'd think would be awesome, and it is, except that it was the garage meaning we have no garage, and no storage shed, so our tools and camping and holiday decor are homeless... aka on our porch and in my craft corner.

So this is Ben's man cave, even though he says we'd rather have had a garage there, but that's why we're renting and not buying ;)

Theater room from the other side.

This is what our street looks like.. only about 30 houses on a country road. I'd say it's quiet, but we're in the path of the Blackhawk training pilots, so we see those all day, and hear them half the night, but I still think it's cool... even saw a Chinook the other day.



Tuesday, May 22, 2012



I loved this idea and had to share... The Creative Homemaker has a system for FHE (Family Home Evening) themes and organizastion for the year. Here's her pic and below is her breakdown of themes/topics.
FHE Themes
Jan- Order and Goals
Goal Setting/Priorities, Responsibilities, Work/House of Order, Word of Wisdom.

Feb- Love
Kindness, Repentance, Forgiveness, Morality.

Mar- Family Unity
(Communication), Manners (etiquette), Reverence, Missionary Work, CTR (honesty/accountability/example).

Apr- Becoming More Spiritual
Review of Conf., Resurrection/Second Coming, Prayer, Faith/Revelations.

May- Self-Reliance
Talents/Gifts, "Mothers"(including Eve, Mary, etc), Being Prepared (temporal & spiritual), Testimony/Trials, Temple.

Jun- Membership in the Church
 Baptism (covenants), "Fathers" (Adam, Lehi, etc), Leadership/Callings, Patriotism.

Jul- Patriotism and Pioneers
Agency, Diversity, Pioneers, Searching the Scriptures.

Aug- Following Christ
Keeping the Sabbath Day Holy, Atonement, Sacrifice, Armor of God, 6 B's.

Sept- Purpose of Life
Plan of Salvation, Creation, I am a child of God, Godhead/Holy Ghost.

Oct- Obedience
Listening and Following Church leaders/Review of Conf., Budgeting, Commandments, Fasting/Fast Offering.
  
Nov- Gratitude
Restoration of the Gospel, Music & Hymns, Pat. Blessings, Sacrament.

Dec- Charity
Service, Stories of Jesus, Birth of Christ, Review of the Year.

 For a couple of years I've clipped articles from the Friend magazine and put them in a binder to use for FHE lessons, now I'll use these themes to organize them. Loved this!

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

More Menu & Chores

More about cooking and cleaning, right... just what we all need, because they are a couple of the things that NEVER stop! So I am thrilled to report that the new chore system we are using is working REALLY well... kids know what's expected and there are clear consequences that do not involve me being the screaming bad guy. I still find myself wanting to squeak and give them their star for the day even if they didn't finish everything, but I'm working on not bending the rules ;) The kids have had a few good learning experiences too as they realize to get privileges they have to complete their responsibilities, and we've already done most of their "special dates". A couple chose a movie night with mom and dad, and the others chose walks, and Tally has the next 5 of her dates nights already planned out ;) It's so nice getting that one-on-one time with them.

I listed a bunch of our main menu items a couple blog posts back, but I had to share our new spin on it. I've always wanted to have "Taco Tuesday". Can't remember where I first heard it, but it was catchy and fun, but I always tended to miss it by a day or two. So one day, on the way to softball practice I told the kids about it, and since half of them have or are learning about alliterations in school they thought it was fun and started spouting off ones for other days. So now we have an alliteration menu plan with dinner as follows:

Macaroni Monday (Italian)
Taco Tuesday (Mexican)
Wonton Wednesday (Chinese/Asian)
Thankful Thursday (Just be grateful for whatever you get)
Fast Food or Fish Friday (Fast meaning home-made flatbread pizzas or something we buy pre-made)
Soup or Salad Saturday
Simple Sunday (a reminder to me that it's supposed to be a day of rest and not an elaborate feast)

We've had so much fun with it that we branched out to breakfast too:

OatMeal Monday
Tiny-Pancake Tuesday
Waffle Wednesday
Thankful Thursday (why not carry it out the whole day, right?!)
French Toast Friday
Cereal Saturday
Special Sunday (this is the day I like to take a little more time and make something special, like crepes or ableskivers; or if I'm really lucky and get to sleep in, German pancakes are great time-saving treat)

So there you have it... it makes me smile and since today was Tuesday we tried out our tiny pancakes and they were adorable! Better yet, I didn't have 4 kids waiting for me to cut their pancakes up... who doesn't love finger food :)

Busy, busy, busy and Loving It!


So it's taken me two weeks to post this, so forgive the out of date info, but it's been a little busy around here: To give you an idea (two weeks ago) we had Samantha's B-day, General Conference, Family Pics, General Conference, softball game, Scouts, Softball practice, Soccer Practice, a Wedding I decorated for and a Saturday Easter Bunny Siting!

Samantha turned 7... we found her this amazing musical carousel at an estate sale and gave her a package of Shrinky Dinks. She's had so much fun with them.
Family Pictures were a success

Despite all the grumbles of the week before, the kids really had a good time with general conference. Last minute I found some new kids packets for the older kids that was great... it made up a mini-book and they had to cut out the apostle's pic when they spoke, glue it on to their book, color in their tie and write what they talked about. I even wanted to do it :)

Somewhere in the midst of it all I finished a craft project I'd been wanting to do for a very long time... a Family Home Evening chart that has something for everyone to do.

Along with all the fun I found this cute little guy crossing the street in front of my Suburban so we brought him home and had a pet for the weekend before we let him go in a safe place.I kinda miss the little guy... we named him Shelly/Yurtle since I really don't know whether he was a she?!

This is the final product of the wedding we decorated for... a lot of work, but I was most happy the ceiling canopy did NOT fall down :)